Keeping the flame burning between a couple is hard; keeping the sexual chemistry is even harder! Being in the same monogamous relationship for years, one can use up all his ideas about foreplays and sex, creating dull and boring lovemaking routines. After all, it’s inevitable for the sex to become a usual procedure and the foreplay’s excitement to fade away.

Foreplay is as essential as the sex itself. When that point comes, don’t let familiarity and boredom take over. You aren’t alone; every couple wades through the same dilemma. Hopefully a long monogamous relationship leads to being comfortable enough for sexual experimentation. Otherwise, some tips may help in reviewing and experimenting foreplays to exalt sexual relationship.

Sharing

Just the giving of a man’s attention to his partner already sparks up sensual connection; thus, the connection would be much more evident when she is conversed with and really listened to. Even when a man has decided to be open and is simply sharing thoughts to a woman, the attraction becomes more intense. Try showing casual interest in a woman’s ideas and stories; it makes them feel loved and important and eventually, make them sexually provoked. A man can talk about his dreams with his partner in it, his wild fantasies that he would want to experience, or anything he would want to share that could bring excitement.

Teasing

Eyes can be so powerful in teasing; one can communicate by just looking at a woman with so much enthusiasm. The lower lips can be bitten in such a manner that can tell how much a girl is craved. The hands may also be used to wander around the body; the hands can land on a woman’s inner thighs while watching television. As for the arms, one or both may be stretched out to display more of chest area to urge a woman to dive into him relentlessly.

There is so much a person could do and use to tease — almost every body part. In fact, one can use something natural within him: sex appeal. But if it begins to pall as the relationship runs long, there are commercially available hormones, called pheromones, which could help a person bring his appeal back.

Pheromones were first identified in animals and were used to naturally attract a possible mate. According to Nexuspheromones.com, researchers eventually found the same hormone in humans’ body. After years of studies and experiments, these pheromones were proven to be among the main causes of attraction. Today, pheromone products, such as Nexus Pheromones™, make the said substance readily available to instantly attract the opposite sex.

But whatever a man chooses as his method for teasing a woman, the trick is to take one step at a time. Let her wait and let her want more. The longer the teasing goes, the more she’ll want you.

Kissing

The art of kissing does not simply consist of lips and tongue work. Kissing requires hands–hands that can stroke that body and can let passion be felt. The tongue work can be saved for the sex part, when the man is already on the genital part of his partner.

While kissing, a man can glide his fingers gently to the woman’s cheeks, her neck, and then through her scalp and her hairtips. Hands can be stroked against her back down to her butt slowly. Remember that a woman wants to be kissed with emotions and desire. Thus, with this in mind, the kissing will surely turn her on regardless of where men’s kisses land on.

Undressing

It may seem unimportant but undressing is actually a cunning part of the foreplay. A shirt could be pulled off a woman’s body in a sexy, slow way.. Through some practice, a man can unbutton and unzip the pants of his partner not using the hands–just the lips and teeth alone.

Undressing a woman in a sensual way depends greatly on what type of dress and undergarments she wears. Don’t try to undress her as if you’ll tear her clothes off because it may send the message that you are dying to get into her right away. Learn the art in it and make it a vital step in your foreplay.

Massage

Some are only used to getting a massage only when their muscles are fatigued, but this kind of trick can also induce their muscles’ exhaustion after the relaxation! To complement a massage, there are lot of scented candles and oils which can insinuate lovemaking. Scented candles can soothe and calm her senses while oil helps in giving a good glide of the massage all over her naked body. Colognes and sprays can also be used over the body before giving a massage. Some of the market product hormones come in sprays, like Nexus Pheromones™, making it easier for them to be desired.

Being able to offer a good relaxing massage may mean that both of them really are comfortable and well-connected with each other. But a man may also not depend on his hands alone. Massaging a woman’s body with his own can result in a higher sexual intensity.

There is only one rule:

When you want a girl to be intimate with you, it’s better to imply it, and maybe refer to it indirectly but NEVER just come out and say it directly. Women’s idea of sex is very different than men’s. They like it as much as a man does but for them the approach is so different. For them, it happens because that special someone and her can now celebrate their love. I have never met one woman who wants to feel like she’s being used for just physical intimacy (but these woman are out there, just my bad luck). Make her feel special, and let her know that you want to spend time with her for other things too, not just her body… and you will have more partners than you can handle. And now, YOU will be in the position of choice when it comes to women.

You see, beautiful women pretty much have their “pick of the litter” when it comes to getting laid. They simply have more options than most guys do. But by methodically building quality relationships with women, you will enjoy the same power and choice.

And a quick note about ethics. Don’t imply that you want a romantic, committed relationship with a woman in order to seduce her. If you honestly want one, that’s great. It’s much more satisfying… but don’t ever mislead someone to believing that you’re interested in more than you really are. It’s deceitful, and hurts everyone involved. It is not true that all women will want a romantic relationship prior to physical intimacy but they definitely do not want to be used like some object. Women always want to feel an emotional connection and you should respect that if you want to succeed with women.

Once you get good at being a ladies’ man, you’ll realize that you never have to lie in order to make women want to sleep with you. In fact, I have found that just being myself and being honest about my desires has gotten me laid a LOT more than when I was BSing women into bed with me.

There are some tacky tips / tricks out there: like, determining if she is horney – when sitting down and talking to a woman, if you notice her knees moving inwards and outwards, then she has sex on her mind! or the obvious teasing methods, i mean sexual teasing. Women LOVE anticipation. Everyone knows that! …but all this are steps after you have built a quality relationship with her.

I just want you to know that it’s been my experience that being ethical is a lot more rewarding when it comes to being a seducer. Some people think that seducing women means being dishonest I’m here to tell you that nothing is further from the truth. When you can make a woman feel really wonderful when she’s with you, she’ll just naturally want to come back for more. You won’t have to convince her, or chase after her. Trust me on this. I’m no expert, but i have had my fair share of woman.

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Are you tired of losing control every time you make love to your woman? Do you want to discover sex positions to help you last longer and that will keep you erect and feeling the good friction without the “Oh no, I’m already at the edge” feeling?

Well, today is going to be a very happy day for men out there who get too excited around the vaginal playground. These tips and position suggestions will allow you to delve into your sexual desires without fearing that the finale is just a pump or two away. So, before you burst just thinking about it, we’ll get to our positions to help you last longer.

Beyond positions to help you last longer

Keep in mind that it takes more than just sex positions to help you last longer. First off, you need to keep a positive frame of mind. Don’t turn it into a self-fulfilling prophecy by continuously telling yourself that you can’t do it. You can, especially if you believe you can.

If you have some sort of medical drawback, like erectile dysfunction, then these positions to help you last longer obviously won’t work for you. Be realistic and get yourself to a professional as soon as you can to optimize your sex life.

Positions can be a game

Turning foreplay into a game of lustful sexual containment can be more fun than the actual sex itself. Make your foreplay last. After all, when have you ever heard a woman saying: “He kisses my lips and goes down on me for way too long?” That’s what we thought.

Enjoy the time you have together and stop focusing on the actual sex because that’ll likely cause you to get more nervous, and end up leaving her in the bathroom with a vibrating shower nozzle. Make it a total body experience, not just a penis one — oh, and learn to please her in the shower as well.

Lasting longer can mean some one-on-one

You’ve all heard it before: Practice makes perfect. Don’t be shy guys, you did it when you first discovered that something other than urine comes out of your penis, and you can do it now. Masturbation is not a four-letter word (there we go, stating the obvious) and if you want to understand your own waterworks, you’re going to have to play the “getting to know you” game with yourself.

By stroking yourself and figuring out at which point you feel like ejaculating, you can learn how to maintain your erection and avoid premature incidents. Also, you can bring yourself to the point where you feel like you’re about to lose it and stop yourself until the feeling goes away. Keep it up until an adequate amount of time has passed and then let the rivers flow freely.

Before we dive head-first into the positions to help you last longer (and you know which head we’m talking about), keep in mind that what might work for some may not work for others. The whole point of it is trial and error, along with positive thinking.

Last-longer position 1: This is your mission

Perhaps it is not the most explosive of sexual positions and, hey, it may not even merit the “Best Position in the Bedroom” award. This position, nonetheless, is most helpful for men who want to prolong coitus.

Remember that the instant she lifts her legs in the air or you lift your own body, you may end up feeling more intense sensations. We, therefore, recommend that you begin with body-to-body missionary and slowly work your way up with variety.

Last-longer position 2: Face me

Another great position that’ll help most men last longer in the sack is the “sitting inside each other” position. You sit with your legs crossed and she sits atop you doing the same and controlling the tempo.

When you become accustomed to this situation and learn adequate penis control, then you can give her some new instructions and get her to squat up and down on your member while she puts her hands on your knees for balance.

Last-longer position 3: Ride him like a cowgirl

Although some guys lose control, considering they don’t have any power when the woman on top does all the maneuvering, many men find a woman’s back-and-forth thrusting (rather than up and down) very comfortable.

Once the thrusting thing becomes child’s play for you, you can try letting her squat. But be warned: The squatting position is likely to make you lose your mind (and your semen) a lot faster. That’s because her vagina tends to hug your penis rather tightly, and your genitals and hers are the only two body parts that are touching.

Last-longer position 4: Front-to-back

This position should usually be reserved for morning sex. With her back facing you, lift up one of her legs and insert yourself inside her warm fleshy area.

The G-spot: some think it’s a myth; others are convinced that it’s not only real, but it’s also highly effective in triggering mind-blowing female orgasms. While the scientific community may still be divided on the G-spot’s existence, ask any woman who has had a G-spot orgasm, and she’ll tell you that it’s definitely there, and she wants you to stimulate it.

Locating the G-spot can be an epic quest. It can be remarkably easy to find in some women, while in others it’s almost impossible. If you put your finger insider her vagina with your palm up while she’s on her back and then bring your fingers up in a “come hither” motion, you should be somewhere close to the G-spot. Manual stimulation of the G-spot may be the easiest way to explore its possibilities, but you can also incorporate it into intercourse. If you choose the right positions, you’ll have a greater chance of hitting her G-spot.

From behind

Rear-entry positions are some of the most reliable when it comes to stimulating the G-spot during intercourse. You can try it doggy style or in the spooning position (both of you lying on your sides, facing the same way as you enter her from behind) for a more relaxed option. In order to have the greatest chance of success with a rear-entry position, the penis should rub against the front wall of the vagina. When she’s on all fours, she should arch her back slightly and not put her head down on the bed. You can try lifting her hips a little and thrusting in a downward motion to perfect this G-spot position.

She’s on top

Many women prefer positions in which they are on top. This probably has a lot to do with the fact that when she’s on top, she’s in control. Woman-on-top positions, like cowgirl and its variations, are great for hitting the G-spot because the woman can angle her hips just right, allowing her to find the arrangement that feels best to her. She can try leaning forward or back while adjusting the speed and pressure applied to the G-spot.

The right rotation

Rotated Woman is a tantric sex position that is excellent for stimulating the G-spot. Start by lying flat on your back with her straddling you, facing away. Then she should carefully lean down until she can grab your ankles and is lying on top of you. Once in position, she can move up and down or circle her hips in a figure-8 pattern. The angle makes her vagina tighten up, so the rubbing of the penis provides intense G-spot pleasure. She may also get some clitoral stimulation in this position, so she can have the best of both worlds.

Heels over head

Positions in which her feet are on your chest or shoulders are also great G-spot positions. In tantra, this position is referred to as The Flower Press. Start off like you would if you were using the missionary position, then once you have penetrated her, she should lift her legs up and back until they are pressed against your chest or over your shoulders. You can lean against her thighs for support while she grabs your hips and brings you closer for maximum penetration. This G-spot position works because of the angle of the penis as it enters and the depth it can reach.

Women love sex. In fact, some women think about it just as often, if not more, then their male counterparts. They fantasize constantly and at great length (with you being the object of their desire, of course). These hot little fantasies can cover a broad spectrum of kink, but almost always involve one of the five most common vaginal and anal sex positions women enjoy. This is due to a number of reasons, the most significant being that they create a perfect balance between level of difficulty and maximum pleasure. In other words, these sex positions women enjoy result in loads of pleasure for the minimal level of effort required to pull them off. That’s not to say that women don’t love your faves as well; they’re definitely into sexual acrobatics every now and then — but when we’re getting down and dirty, certain sex positions tend to get women more wet than others.

Private lap dance

Most women love being on top for one simple reason: It makes them feel like they’re in charge, and power is always a heady aphrodisiac. Being on top is not limited to one style, however. If you’re old-school, lie on your back and have her straddle your waist before lowering herself onto you; don’t forget to lend her some support by holding her hips while she rides you. If your woman doesn’t enjoy this style, it’s likely for one of two reasons: She may feel overexposed during the act, or her legs might be a bit too short to pull it off comfortably. The easy fix for this dilemma? Move to the sofa. Sit yourself down, lean back and pull her astride you. This is definitely one of the sex positions women enjoy because it allows her to brace herself against the back of the couch, giving her excellent leverage to ride you to orgasm. She can even brace herself with one hand, leaving the other free to play with her clit.

Sex position savvy: It may be tempting to just sit back and enjoy the scenery, but if you’d like to really rock her world, tease her breasts and nipples with your tongue and trace the curve of her waist with your fingers; these moves will magnify her pleasure.
The comfort zone

More commonly known as the missionary position, the comfort zone is not to be overlooked. Nor should any man ignore its tremendous potential for scorching hot sex. Yes, it can also make for predictable, boring sex a Puritan would admire, but only if you’re lacking passion and creativity. The comfort zone is one of the top sex positions women enjoy, and for good reason: the permutations for pleasure are virtually endless, and none of them involve discomfort or the skills of a gymnast. Take charge: Lay her down on the bed, spread her legs apart by sliding your knee between her thighs, place her wrists above her head and show her what you’re made of. Women love displays of dominance in the bedroom, and this one can be either subtle or overt, making it suitable for nearly every woman out there.

Sex position savvy: Take it to the next level by talking dirty to her. Bring your lips close to her ear and whisper what you’re going to do to her; let her know she’ll be screaming your name before it’s over.
Stand at erection

This sexual position women enjoy is pretty self-evident in the title: Your woman is going to sit on a surface that stands level with your waist, and then you’re going to penetrate her as deeply as you possibly can. The further her legs are spread apart the better, and you can maximize this by drawing her legs around your waist. This will place her vagina directly against your groin, and will make deep thrusting incredibly easy for you, thereby increasing her odds of having a G-spot orgasm. Where can you put this sexual position women enjoy to good use? Try the kitchen counter, the bathroom counter, the washing machine, the piano, the hood of your car — get as naughty as you like.

Sex position savvy: Some men come relatively quickly in this position, thanks to it’s deep-thrusting potential. Don’t be afraid to slow down and take a break to get yourself back under control. Use that time to stimulate her clitoris and bring her closer to the edge. When you start thrusting again, she’ll be just as ready as you are.

Spooning it

The spoon position makes for fabulous sex, and it’s really no wonder that it’s on this list of sexual positions women enjoy. A woman loves the feel of a man’s chest against her back, she loves the feel of your arms wrapped around her and she loves the feel of being penetrated from behind. She especially enjoys it in the spoon position, because it’s incredibly comfortable and still allows you to play with her breasts and clitoris, which, frankly, most women can never get enough of.

Slide behind your woman, pull her bottom backward against your groin, and slip her top leg over your hip, drawing it slightly backward as you do so. Having her thighs spread apart like this will make her feel deliciously naughty and she’ll probably arch her body to give you even further access. This is a very comfortable sexual position women enjoy, and you can expect a great deal of moaning to ensue.

Sex position savvy: Take advantage of this position by reaching around and stimulating her clitoris, and don’t forget to talk dirty to her as you do; this is one of the best positions for pillow talk.

Stoop doggy dog

You may be surprised to see doggy style making the list, but it really is one of the sexual positions women enjoy. That said, the doggy style you see in the average porn flick isn’t really what we’re talking about here — we’re after something a bit more intimate and far more pleasurable. Yes, women do like being bent forward on all fours and taken from behind, but they like it even more when you bend forward as well, sliding your fingers between her thighs and toying with her clit. And women simply love it when you switch things up by pulling them into a kneeling position while you continue to thrust deeply. Women definitely enjoy doggy style, as long as they aren’t made to feel like objects.

Sex position savvy: While bending forward, gently nip your woman’s shoulders with your teeth; this area is very sensitive and most women enjoy being bitten there, as it greatly intensifies the sexual pleasure.

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State Your Position Please

As mentioned previously, women love sex just as much as you do, and they’re particularly fond of it when it involves any of these woman-pleasing sexual positions. While some women may not love each position on this list, rest assured that most do, and they’re happy to experiment for the sake of keeping things fresh and exciting. Women love those kinky positions, too, but sometimes a girl just wants a man to penetrate her in a style she knows she’ll be able to orgasm from. Try one of these sexual positions women enjoy and she probably will.

How to Find The Male G-Spot

1. Cleanliness Helps

Arousing the prostate means that you need to access the ‘backdoor’. This may make a lot of men cringe but keep your eye on the goal – great sexual pleasure. Anyway, part of a man’s anxiety towards anal play is concern about hygiene. You can easily remove this mental obstacle by having a nice shower before further stimulating the male G-Spot. If you fear that there might be any bowel movement, then remove this obstacle doing this first before you even shower.

2. Cut Your Nails To Prevent Any Accidents

The next thing to do is to ensure that you don’t do anything to irritate or scratch the anus. Cut your nails and make sure your fingers are clean. (If you want to, you can use latex gloves too.) If you plan to use a sex toy, ensure that there are no rough edges.

3. It Starts With Your Mind

A man’s prostate enlarges when he’s aroused, making it easier to find. As such, try to get arouse first with a blow job or hand job

4. Getting Started

First of all, make sure your woman’s fingers are well lubed. Now, the best way to start inserting a finger through the backdoor is to use the tip of her finger first. You should inhale as this is done. When exhaling, contract your muscles a bit and push out as if you are relieving yourself in the bathroom while she continuously inserts the rest of her finger. Once her finger is in, just take a moment and relax. You should try and get used to the feeling of her finger inside his anus.

5. Locate the Prostate

About two inches in and facing toward his belly, you’ll find his prostate. It’s that walnut-shaped swelling that you feel.

6. Stimulate the G-Spot

After locating the prostate, now’s the time to see what best stimulates it. Most men swear that applying continuous but consistent pressure on it is best, while others find that flicking it or using a sex toy that vibrates against it is best. Experiment and see which one works best!

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